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Speaker

Meddy Goossens

Meddy Goossens is a speaker and author specialising in shaming, victim blaming, psychological safety and resilience. Drawing on her own extraordinary personal story, she explores what happens when judgement and shame silence people, and the difference it can make when someone truly listens, asks the right question or opens up the conversation. Meddy combines powerful personal storytelling with her professional experience in politics, crisis management and the security sector.

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  • Available for booking as: Day chairman Speaker Panelist
  • Languages: Dutch English

About Meddy Goossens

At the age of nineteen, Meddy’s life changes dramatically when private images she had shared in confidence as a minor are distributed online without her consent. Her name and images circulate on the internet, and she is confronted with online stalking, shaming and public judgement. The experience affects her for years and ultimately helps shape the work she does today.

At the same time, Meddy builds a diverse professional career. She spends several years working in local politics and gains experience in crisis management, disaster response and the security sector. As a trainer, communications professional and project manager, she works with government organisations, public officials, police, fire services and regional safety authorities. It is precisely this combination of personal experience and professional expertise that gives her a distinctive perspective on themes such as psychological safety, trust, connection and decision-making under pressure.

From shame to a powerful voice

With her book SHAMING, Meddy takes ownership of her story. She writes openly about digital humiliation, shame and victim blaming, but also about regaining control, resilience and the freedom that comes when other people’s judgement no longer defines who you are. She also uses her experience to raise awareness of shaming, sexting and victim blaming among organisations, public institutions, young people, parents and education professionals.

Holding up a mirror without pointing fingers

On stage, Meddy brings together her personal story and professional experience. She speaks openly, directly and with humour, and has the ability to make an audience laugh one moment and fall completely silent the next. Her style is personal and thought-provoking, but never accusatory. She makes audiences aware of how much influence people have on one another — at home, at school, at work and in society — and how much difference a single response, question or person can make.

Over Meddy Goossens

Sessions

Why do people stay silent at the very moments when you want them to speak up? In Speaking Out in Silence, Meddy Goossens explores how judgement, shame and fear of other people’s reactions influence what people do — and do not — feel able to say. She connects her personal story to psychological safety and recognisable situations in the workplace. What happens when someone makes a mistake, drops out or raises an uncomfortable issue? And how much impact does our first reaction have?

Through sharp insights, humour and personal storytelling, Meddy holds up a human mirror to organisations. A keynote that resonates, while also showing how much influence we all have in creating a culture where people feel seen, heard and safe enough to speak up.

An open and accessible talk about sexting, online shaming, victim blaming and digital safety. Drawing on her own experience, Meddy shows the impact that can occur when private images are shared without consent — but above all, how much difference the response of those around us can make.

A confronting yet hopeful session that encourages young people, parents and professionals to reflect on their own words, behaviour and responsibility.

As an event moderator, Meddy combines strong content with energy, spontaneity and genuine curiosity. With her background in communications, politics, government and the security sector, she is particularly at home with programmes focused on social and substantive issues.

She asks sharp questions, moves effortlessly between speakers and the audience, and uses humour and warmth to keep the programme moving, create connection and maintain a clear and natural thread throughout the event.

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