What happens when you spend years living according to what is expected of you? When you make choices to please others, perform, numb yourself, and slowly lose touch with who you are? In this personal keynote, Koos takes you through his story. From the little boy who was ashamed of who he was to the adult man who learned to live his own life, rather than the life others had planned for him. A raw, honest, and transformative story about identity, addiction, childhood wounds, and the power of true leadership. With humor, sharpness, and depth.
For years, Koos used alcohol to numb himself every weekend. Until he decided to stop drinking. From that moment on, he gradually came closer to himself. He created a life that truly suits him, in which he experiences contentment, happiness, and connection. He decided to leave his work as a television entertainment expert and presenter behind to focus on supporting high performers who want to stop drinking. He hosts the podcast Eerlijk Over Alcohol, which has been downloaded more than one million times, and founded the online platform drankreminder.nl, offering accessible online training for anyone who has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol.
What you will discover:
– How perfectionism and the drive to perform can lead to inner exhaustion
– Why numbing yourself (through alcohol, work, scrolling, or performance) is rarely the real problem
– What makes the difference between surviving and truly living
– How to create space for authenticity instead of wearing masks
– Why leadership starts with self-knowledge and self-acceptance
– How we can create an organisational culture in which vulnerability is not a weakness, but a strength
Koos touches people, challenges them, and makes them ask themselves: Am I truly being who I am?